Coaching

What is coaching?

Fig 1 Managers Retreat Aug 2018
Discussing the finer points of Coaching for Greater Effectiveness at the Managers Retreat in August 2018

Over the last few years, NDR has encouraged our managers to promote a "coaching culture" with their employees. While there are various models for creating such an environment, giving frequent and meaningful feedback is at the heart of this culture.

Coaching management relies less on telling staff what and how to do specific tasks and more on how to develop our staff to their full potential. A coach is someone who actively listens to employees and asks thoughtful questions to help the staff develop their skills and obtain mastery over their areas of responsibility.

Most NDR managers have been through the "Coaching for Greater Effectiveness" training, where we learned about and practiced the four core behaviors essential to good manager-employee conversations: listening for understanding, asking powerful questions, challenging with support and feedback, and defining next steps. Managers also practiced the Situation-Behavior-Impact-Intent (SBII) communication model for giving employees feedback, especially under challenging circumstances.

If you're new to the idea of coaching, this website is a valuable resource for learning how to incorporate the core behaviors and SBII into your management practices: sites.nd.edu/cfge/about-the-program.

Characteristics of a good coach

  • Good coaches are not synonymous with good advice-givers.
  • Good coaches come into conversations without the assumption that they need to have all of the answers.
  • Good coaches help their employees "think forward" by asking questions like: Why won't the status quo work? What could make this situation better? What would success look like if you could wave a magic wand?
  • Good coaches use "exploratory feedback" to help their employees reflect on past actions and imagine ways the situation could have been different with no single answer in mind. 

Coaching as the future of work shifts post-pandemic

Coaching encourages staff to solve their own problems and to come up with their own solutions. This management philosophy facilitates the growth of intrinsic motivation and provides a sense of control at a time when employees are accustomed to a high level of autonomy. Good coaching conversations end with clear next steps. This accountability is critical for driving work forward, especially as many are piloting a hybrid work program. By listening for understanding, we will be better able to address the changing needs of our staff who are adjusting to post-pandemic life. 

Special considerations for remote and hybrid work

Creating an environment that is conducive to successful coaching conversations is likely more difficult with employees on different schedules and in different locations. 

  • Commit to your one-on-one meetings with your staff and avoid cancellations. Although faculty and staff managers alike have many competing priorities, demonstrating your commitment to your employee's growth and performance is vital. 
  • Active listening over Zoom can be more difficult. It helps to precede a coaching conversation with a mental break to get in the right frame of mind. Schedule meetings when you and your employee are most likely to be in a listening mood. 
  • Too much stress can interfere with good decision-making. Try to control your own stress and bring a calming and even-keeled presence to your conversations.
  • Remember to ask genuine questions if you want genuine answers. Instead of asking, "How are you?," try, "What is the biggest issue on your mind today?"

Watch at skillport.nd.edu

  • Good Coaches Ask Questions (Skillport Library ID: 94375) 
  • Feedback that Can Have the Greatest Impact (Skillport Library ID: 115270)

Tools and Resources

  • One simple suggestion if you don't have much time to absorb all of the resources below, is to choose one powerful question to ask at each of your one-on-one meetings.
  • Stop Giving Answers... Ask Powerful Questions Instead
    This blog post has a myriad of creative questions coaches can use to get to the heart of what is motivating or hindering an employee; for example, "Tell me what you need to hear so that you can stop worrying." 
  • The Leader as Coach
    This article offers the GROW model as a way to improve our coaching skills, arguing why coaching is more important than directing.
  • Coaching for Greater Effectiveness Quick Tips and Reminders CFGE Quick Tips Reminders
    This quick reference guide gives bullet points about the SBII method that is great for having difficult conversations.
  • How to Use Situation-Behavior-Impact to Give Feedback
    This blog post describes the power of the SBII model to navigate clarifying conversations when people fail to meet your expectations.
  • Coaching in the Time of COVID-19
    This article offers advice on how managers can demonstrate empathy toward their employees and safeguard mission-critical priorities from stress-filled decision-making. 
  • How to Coach Employees from a Distance
    This article offers some great tips for modeling optimism and accountability for your employees regardless of whether you are sharing office space or not; for example, ask questions that reveal underlying assumptions. 
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If you have questions or ideas for additional resources in this playbook, please contact the Director of Finance and Administration